Forgiveness

” Forgiveness means ceasing those feelings of resentment and revenge towards someone who did you wrong.”

If someone had offended you today, I hope that you’ll be able to forgive. To give your heart and mind that peace you deserve.

Some people use the word Bitterness without truly being objective about a situation. And being offended in any form – verbally or physically is as hurtful as the other or even worst.  When we forgive we know that there is an acceptance that we are all human and everyone make mistakes. We forgive, but it does not mean you can let other people offend you over and over.

I admire you for your strength of forgiving others, even though you know these people are not deserving. If we forgive others we too, deserve to be forgiven for our mistakes. And in forgiving we find peace. But if you still have that feeling of resentment inside you, I hope in time you will be able to forgive and let go. I wish your heart heals soon so that you can truly enjoy the wonderful life you have and the all the good things you deserve.

If you hurt someone today, I hope you’ve learned your lesson and have the strength to ask for forgiveness. Don’t force someone to forgive you, give people space and the time to heal. And be kind enough not to hurt someone else again.

That’s how wonderful our life is, every day we are given the chance to forgive and be forgiven.

About The Kintsugi Philosophy

“When the Japanese mend broken objects they aggrandize the damage by filling the cracks with gold because they believe that when something’s suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful.” – Barbara Bloom

One beautiful piece of art made by someone who really cares.

I am trying to heal myself one step at a time. I believe I can and I will succeed on this.

After praying to God every day, all the time I had the chance to, He made me whole again. God made my heart strong enough to let go of what was hurting me. God and Mother Mary removed the thing that’s too heavy for me to carry. And I am grateful for the repair that they did for me and the understanding that there’s a reason why things did not go as planned. So Kintsugi is a very helpful reminder for all of us that at some point in our lives we will be healed. All broken pieces put back together for the good.  All the broken pieces will be together in a beautiful way. As long as we put our faith in God and we never stop praying and believing things will be better for us. As the storm in our lives passes by, our broken pieces will be repaired and we will be better than ever before. That’s how beautiful our lives are. We just need to have faith, good things are about to happen.

Love Your Friends

“True friends are like diamonds – bright, beautiful, valuable, and always in style.” ―Nicole Richie

Love your friends. They are the one’s you can lean on when life gets a little bit challenging. When you’re heartbroken, a friend is enough to help you heal. The only people who can understand you and the things you go through. The time they share with you when you needed them. These are the everyday events we should be grateful for.

Even if you’re far from each other, keep them close by constantly messaging them. And when you’re together laugh as much as you can. Share wonderful memories together. Life, you see is about making wonderful relationships. Some may not be as good as the others. But the important thing is, we connect to one another and at the same time, we keep the friends who never leave our side.

I can only say I LOVE YOU

In the morning, I can only say I LOVE YOU

on the bed as I lay on the floor.

The Lord has blessed me with love and all the wonderful things

I can only say I LOVE YOU.

It was not something intentional

this feeling comes from inside of me

I choose to live happily

I choose to let go and be free

but I can only say I LOVE YOU

I love you for all the wonderful memories

I love you for the smiles you give me

for the wonderful kisses

for all the joy we shared

for all the tears we’ve shed

for being together as much as we can

for sleeping while we hold hands

I love you and that’s enough for me

I love you and I will always be

so in love with you endlessly

my heart is full of goodness because of the love you have in me

and I can only say I LOVE YOU

I love you enough to detach from me

I love you enough to let you go

I love you enough to set you free

One good Quote

Being strong doesn’t mean you have to stay and fight all the battles and petty arguments that come your way. Being strong means you don’t have to stay and respond to rude remarks. Don’t retort by throwing insults back at them. It’s what they want. Keep your dignity and don’t lower yourself to their level. True strength is being adult enough to walk away from the nonsense with your head held high. ~Unknown